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Best Books on Pet Grief

Sometimes the right book makes you feel a little less alone. Here are gentle, well-regarded reads on pet loss for adults and for children.

There is no right pace for reading through grief. Keep a book by your bedside and pick it up whenever it helps, a page or a chapter at a time.

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Books for adults

The Pet Loss Companion

by Ken Dolan-Del Vecchio and Nancy Saxton-Lopez

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The Loss of a Pet

by Wallace Sife, Ph.D.

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Going Home: Finding Peace When Pets Die

by Jon Katz

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Goodbye, Friend

by Gary Kowalski

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Coping with Sorrow on the Loss of Your Pet

by Moira K. Anderson Allen

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Grieving the Death of a Pet

by Betty J. Carmack

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Books for children

Dog Heaven / Cat Heaven

by Cynthia Rylant

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I'll Always Love You

by Hans Wilhelm

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The Tenth Good Thing About Barney

by Judith Viorst

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The Invisible Leash

by Patrice Karst

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When a Pet Dies

by Fred Rogers

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Ida, Always

by Caron Levis and Charles Santoso

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Helping a child through a loss? Our guide to memorial ideas for kids offers gentle, hands-on activities too.

Any of these can also be found at your local library. Choose whichever tone feels right for you.

Books on Pet Grief: Common Questions

Gentle answers about reading through pet loss.

Can a book really help with pet grief?

For many people, yes. A good book on pet loss can make you feel understood, reassure you that your grief is normal, and offer gentle, practical ways to cope. Reading someone else's honest words about the same loss can ease the isolation that pet grief often brings, and give shape to feelings that are hard to name.

What is a good book to help a child cope with pet loss?

Gentle picture books written for children are ideal. Well-loved titles include Dog Heaven and Cat Heaven by Cynthia Rylant, I'll Always Love You by Hans Wilhelm, The Tenth Good Thing About Barney by Judith Viorst, and When a Pet Dies by Fred Rogers. Reading one together gives a child honest, age-appropriate words and an opening to share their feelings.

How do I choose the right pet grief book for me?

Think about what you need most right now. Some books are gentle, reflective companions for the raw early days, while others are more practical guides to the grieving process or workbooks with prompts. If you are supporting a child, choose a picture book for their age. Reading a few sample pages or reviews can help you find a tone that feels right.

Find comfort in words and in people

Pair a good book with a community or a helpline whenever you need one.

Online Communities

Pet Loss Hotlines

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