There is no need to do everything at once. Take the decisions one at a time, and lean on your veterinarian and the people who love you. You do not have to face this alone.
The first steps, gently
Give yourself a moment
There is no need to rush. Take the time you need to sit with your pet, say goodbye, and let the first wave of shock pass before making any decisions.
Contact your veterinarian
If your pet died at home, your vet can advise on next steps, help with aftercare, and often coordinate cremation. If it happened at the clinic, they will guide you gently through the options.
Decide on aftercare
The main choices are cremation, burial in a pet cemetery, or home burial where local rules allow. You usually have a little time to decide, so you do not have to choose instantly.
Care for the body in the meantime
If you need a short while before aftercare, keep your pet in a cool place. Your vet or a pet aftercare service can also hold your pet respectfully while you decide.
Tell the people who need to know
Let close family know, and consider notifying anyone connected to your pet, such as a pet insurer, microchip registry, or licensing office, when you feel ready.
Choosing aftercare
Deciding how to lay your pet to rest is one of the last loving things you will do for them. If you are weighing the options, our guides to pet cremation, pet cemeteries, and what to do with the ashes explain each choice in plain language.
Caring for yourself
The practical tasks are only part of this. Your grief matters too. Be gentle with yourself in the days ahead, and reach out when you need to. A pet loss hotline, a support group, or our guide on how to cope with pet loss can all help you carry it.
This guide offers general information. Your veterinarian can advise on the specifics for your pet and your area.